I look at this photo taken in January 2003; my son was just 3 days old. Somehow time has moved steadily and he is now 8.5 years old, entering third grade as a thoughtful and philosophical young guy (and a joy to be around, I must add).

I remember this moment captured in a photo. I was tired, unprepared for first time patenting and scared by my own lack of familiarity. I was beginning my journey as a mother seeking... And it clearly continues.

He may or may not have been cheating for some time but has nevertheless left you for another woman. She may be younger, older, prettier, and more fun or not. You don’t actually know, but your imagination is driving you crazy. You imagine them talking about you behind your back, scheming, making mad, passionate love in your bed, in the car, on the beach and almost every other place your eye can see. While you’ve “sort of” accepted the breakup of the relationship, you’re burning with desire for revenge.

Relationships are meant to make you feel confident and good about yourself. Unfortunately for many of us, our relationships are the main cause of all of our stress and anxiety. Trying to be someone your not is also a factor in feeling stressed; feeling like you are a failure. The stress and anxiety can sometimes take over who you are, causing you to be insecure in your relationship. In the end sometimes the relationship isn't strong enough to move forward.