It is a sad truth that relatives can make planning a wedding extremely uncomfortable. A bride to be can all too often find herself caught between a rock and a hard place, suffering from an eternal case of trying to please too many people and actually pleasing no one. With weddings, relatives of both bride and groom step into the light just to make life that little bit more difficult – the end results can be a betrothed couple so distressed and fraught with tension, the wedding day seems more like something to dread than savour.