Have you ever thought about this before? Something you should know about women and men or husband and wife, is just this simple statement, men need respect, and women need love. I know some will not agree with me, they might be having different perspectives about this, because of their culture, belief or religion.
For those who are Christians, may have read this in the bible, what God says about husband and wife, he said to the man, love your wife, and he said to the woman, be submissive to your husband, naturally, it was design that way, whether you like it or not. For those deviating from that principles, sometimes find it difficult to see peace and happiness in their relationship.
The number one reason women break up with their men in any relationship, is when the man is having extra marital affair with another woman, she will felt she was not truly loved by the man, because, if he has truly loved her as he has claimed, he would simply not cheat on her. If a woman feel loved, she will try to make that relationship last for life time.
Why do men need respect? Men are always dominant in everything, which is why they are also muscular in nature, they like to be hard working, and they want to be responsible for the welfares of the family, success or failure. Constitutionally or culturally, men are supposed to be the head, that is how God want it to be, but modernization has turned some things around, some women don’t want to be control by men anymore.
Have you asked yourself this question, why do men go into secrete society, cultism and other organization that they derive respect from? Three things that men quest for in life is, “money” “power” and “respect”.
Men always want women to respect every decision they make, especially when it comes to relationship, even if the woman is the bread winner in the home or not, that is just the secrete to a successful and lasting relationship, when God says women should be submissive to their husband, he simply means, whenever a man demand for sex from his wife, he is expected to be given, any day, anytime, and when she refuses to do that, then, he might start looking for an alternative to satisfy his sexual urge, which might lead to a broken home.
I conclude with this, women respect your husband no matter the circumstances; that doesn’t mean that men are always right in every decision they make. Women also need to be respected, but, men need it more. Men love your wife, which is the will of God for husband and wife.