Too often many seek to engage in sexual intercourse outside of marriage not really thinking about what really is going on... It is important to know that sexual intercourse outside of marriage is not sanctioned by God. God designed marriage as a sacred spiritual union between a man and woman to come together as one…

It is important to know and talk openly about building healthy boundaries together as a couple! Did you know that you are actually giving part of yourself away to one another? There is a cathexis and exchange that takes place… Remember sex is like epoxy!

For most men it is the secrecy which turns them on. The playing 'James Bond' which gives the affair the kick. Because of this, the wife knowing about the affair would spoil it. He gets as much, if not more pleasure in the whole 'Cheating' game than he gets being naked with Slutina.